Tantric Sex: What Is It and How to Practice It?

Tantric Sex: What Is It and How to Practice It?

Tantric sex is much more than a sexual practice – it’s a philosophy of deep connection that transforms intimacy into a spiritual and sensory experience. If you’re looking to explore new levels of pleasure, greater connection with your partner and more intense orgasms, tantra could be the key.

In this post, we will explain:
✔ What is tantric sex and its benefits
✔ How to prepare your body and mind
✔ Basic techniques to get started
✔ Tips to take the experience to another level

🌿 What is Tantric Sex?

Tantra is an ancient tradition that emerged in India, combining spirituality, meditation and sexuality . Unlike conventional sex (focused on quick orgasm), tantric sex seeks to:

• Prolong pleasure (through control of sexual energy).
• Create an emotional and energetic connection between partners.
• Transforming sex into a meditative and sensory experience .

💫 Benefits of Tantric Sex

✅ More intense and multiple orgasms (especially for women).
✅ Greater intimacy and trust in the relationship.
✅ Reduction of stress and anxiety (by focusing on breathing and the present moment).
✅ Improved sensitivity and sexual control .

🕉️ How to Practice Tantric Sex? (Step by Step)

1. Prepare the Environment

• Silence and privacy (turn off cell phones and other distractions).
• Soft light and relaxing aromas ( incense , essential oils such as sandalwood or ylang-ylang).
• Comfortable space (use pillows, rugs or even an altar with candles).

2. Connect Before Sex

• Meditation for two (eye to eye, synchronized breathing).
• Subtle, non-sexual touching (hand, face or back massage).
• Open communication (say what you want and listen to your partner).

3. Breathing and Energy Control

• Deep, slow breathing (inhale through the nose, exhale through the mouth).
• Visualize sexual energy rising from the base of your spine (like a spiral of heat).
• Hold back ejaculation (men can practice pelvic contractions to redirect energy).

4. Slow and Conscious Movements

• Avoid rapid penetration – the focus is on sensation, not climax .
• Explore light touches on erogenous zones (neck, feet, inner thighs).
• Maintain eye contact to deepen the connection.

5. Tantric Orgasm (Not Necessarily Genital)

• Tantric orgasm can be physical, emotional or energetic – it does not have to end with ejaculation.
• Women may experience prolonged orgasms (waves of pleasure lasting several minutes).

💡 Tips to Take Tantra to the Next Level

✔ Use instrumental music or mantras to create a sacred mood.
✔ Try positions that facilitate skin-to-skin contact , such as the "Lotus Position" (man sitting, woman sitting on top of him, facing each other).
✔ Practice the "Yoni Massage" (for her) and the "Lingam Massage" (for him) – tantric massages focused on pleasure without rushing.
✔ Explore sensual toys , such as massage oils with a heating effect or erotic feathers .

🚫 What to Avoid in Tantric Sex?

❌ Haste and expectation of performance (it's not about "reaching orgasm").
❌ Think about other things (the secret is to be 100% present).
❌ Ignore comfort (if a position is uncomfortable, adjust it).

🎁 Products to Support Your Tantric Practice

In our sex shop, you will find:
🌹 Tantric massage oils (with aphrodisiac aromas).
🌹 Massage candles (melt in heated oil).
🌹 Tantric-inspired games for couples .

👉 Explore more products in our sex shop here!

💬 Have you ever tried tantric sex? Tell us about your experience!

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